珍惜你爱的人和爱你的人

因为爱过，所以不会成敌人；因为伤过，所以不会做朋友。

如果，前世的五百次回眸才换来今生的擦肩而过，那想来已经很幸福了―― 其实，擦肩而过，也是一种很深的缘分。

佛说：五百次的回眸才能换来今生的擦肩而过。可以一秒钟遇到一个人，一分钟认识一个人，一个小时喜欢上一个人，一天时间爱上一个人，但是却要用一辈子去忘记一个人。

当她不爱你的时候，无论过去她是否爱过还是后来忘了，又或者是从未爱过，当你无法再成为她心里的那个人的时候，她的心便不会记得你。

请不要在你不开心时去打搅她，她那儿绝对不是你此刻应该的去处。

请不要与她讲你的琐事，她无暇更是没有兴趣去了解你、你的生活。即使讲了，她也很快会忘记的。没有爱，你注定挤不进她的生命。

请不要在她的面前流眼泪，她无法给予你照顾和关心，至多只是一点同情。只有爱你的人，才会真正的去珍惜你，而不是，旁观的同情和怜悯。当她不爱你的时候，你的爱便是她的负担。

请不要去计算自己的付出，不要希望有什么音箱。你用心，她无心，爱着不爱自己的人，本身便是没有回报的。不要计较对与错，这样会快乐些。

请不要失去自信，因为爱一个人，并非她的优秀，而只是一种感觉。她让你有这样的感觉，于是你爱她。同样，她不爱你，也并非你不优秀。优秀，不是爱的理由。还有那么多爱自己的人，淡淡地微笑一下，也是异样甜美的。

当她不爱你的时候，也一定要祝福她。有了爱，便不该有恨，因为曾经有爱，有爱的日子里是快乐的，有缘在一起也是快乐，有过快乐有过爱，就不会再有恨。她失去的是一个爱她的人，而你失去了一个不爱你的人，却得到了一个重新生活、重新去爱的机会。请你深深呼吸，一生的路上，铺满了爱的花蕾，总有那么一朵属于你，花儿虽多，却没有重复的一朵，这是生生世世早已经注定的。

当她不爱你的时候，就是你从他生活中消失的时候，第一时间离开她，骄傲地过属于自己的生活。同时，你也希望她能幸福快乐，找到属于她的未来。轻轻拥抱一下回忆里的温暖，轻柔地凝视凋谢的温柔。无论结果怎样都会破坏了曾经的美感。干干净净地离开，也许若干年后的某个午后，阳光下的她眯起双眼会记起某个美好的瞬间，会心一笑。种种怀念，值了。

爱不一定要离心机。曾经拥有的也许会是你一生最美好的回忆。因为爱过，所以不会成敌人；因为伤过，所以不会做朋友；只能是最熟悉的陌生人。爱过知情重，醉过知酒浓。关于爱的记忆，应该好好收藏，只是今后的幸福，要各自去寻找。

爱是一种感觉，不爱也是一种感觉，而往往难以抉择的是心中的感觉到底是爱还是不爱。原来握在手里的，不一定就是你们真正拥有的；你们所拥有的，也不一定就是你们真正铭刻在心的。人生很多时候需要自觉的放弃，因为拥有的时候，你们也许正在失去，而放弃的时候，你们也许又在重新获得。

明白的人懂得放弃，真情的人懂得牺牲，幸福的人懂得超脱。对不密集架自己的人，最需要的是理解、放弃和祝福。过多的自作多情是在乞求对方的施舍。爱与被爱，都是让人幸福的事情。不要让这些变成痛苦。既然你们已经经历了，多年以后，偶尔想起，希望都是美好的回忆。活的自信些，开心些，把最美的微笑留给伤你最深的人，聪明的人知道自己要快乐。

珍惜你爱的人和爱你的人.

its just another party nite

went st james on sat nite with my darlings as usual. party till 5am! usually i will party till 2am but tat day was expectional. lolx. mayb lot of frens around so dun tend to leave so earli lo. as usual, st james is packed but not as packed as expected. still some room for me to dance. haha.
went to the washroom and i didnt noe i bumped into a gal, so this gal came up to me and told me : EH YOU BUMP INTO ME WITHOUT SAYING SORRY. i was stunned and told her so wat u expected me to do, SORRY la, she smiled and walked away, i guess she is mad. just dun understand lo, bump into u nv say sorry ok wat, she can still walked up to me expecting me to say sorry to her. haha, in fact, i expecting she will pick a fight with me but too bad she nv cox i think the gal oso not so fierce wan la. lolx.
2nd time, went to the ladies again and saw ann darling. so i cut the Q to joined her. who noes when its our turn, this 2 china bitch just went to the cubic without Q and we both got fed up, we slammed the toilet door and they didn even dare to open the door. i just cant stand all this CHINA BITCHES, this is singapore NOT china.

xmas eve and xmas day

yesh, its xmas eve on 24dec 2008 and was raining sooo heavily. i still remb last yr xmas eve i was having a fever and lying in bed. lolx.

in office, every1 was busy giving gift and i had got 2 same piglet which is 1 from debbie and 1 from joyce wong. this yr gift xchange wasnt tat happening as due to the bad market and coming cny and every1 is saving up.its was half day at work. after work, went home to took a nap. having house party in the evening. mummy cooked some curry and bee hoon, while dajie brought spring chicken and auntie yvonne brought a log cake over. left home to club at 11+, reach fly at 12+ which is after count down. packed and squeezing. which is why i dun reali like to club during eve of public holiday. headed home at 2+.

wake up the next day at 10+ in the morni, bath and changed as having a xmas lunch with my cousins at cityhall. We headed to raffles city DING TAI FUNG for lunch and had our gift xchange there before heading to bugis for some shopping. every1 is crowded and packed like hell. and the weather is like killing me. shop till 5+ in the evening and headed home for dinner.

tat marked a day.

xmas gift from colleagues

i got this
cousins

Garren (my nephew) birthday

had dinner at vivo city (whitedog cafe) on sat evening as its my nephew 3rd bdae. he is growing up sooo fast and its seem i getting older when days go by.

after dinner, we headed to the open air area of vivo city to took some pix. shortly after, headed to parkway to collect garren bdae cake then home to cut the cake.
below are some pix to views.

ah gong and ah ma

his birthday cake

Xmas Dinner - 19.12.2008

had a fun xmas dinner with my classmate ytd evening at marine square. supposed to have our dinner at yuki&yaki but was full-hse due to dinner time. therefore ade suggested to go hotpot for dinner instead. wasnt much Q when reached. overall rating is 7/10. there a few choices of soup. we chose chicken soup, tom yam and kim chee. the price for dinner is $24.80 per pax excluding GST and drink. after the dinner, we had a small xmas gift xchange. althot the gift might not be so wonderful but i feel its the heart tat count matter the most. after the gift xchange, we had the bill and headed for a short shopping. went GIORDANO and they having 40% sales for all regular items. soo me and ling brought a pair of jean and after discount its onli $29.40. worth it! haha. after tat, ling suggested going to robinson at raffles city as she had some vouchers which she wana to used it. so she and ade brought lot of comestics from ANNA SUI just to get the free gift bag. we reali looked like ah soh. but who cares rite? below are some pix to shares. hotpotme / ling / ade my xmas gift

ling and me
ade / ling / me

my hse maid kena RETRENCHED

our full time domestic helper (auntie lily) whom was with us for 1year had been "retrenched".
this was due to her more and more dirty / reluctant / cant be bothered attitude that we decided to sent her back to the agency. poor thing rite? i dun think so la cox we had been treating her well. wat we eat she oso eat. we even brought her with her to genting recently.
just tat she didnt noe hwo to appreciate the kindness we had for her.
she had left for 2 days and since then had we do the housechores for the time being till the new domestic helper come in. wasnt reali a difficult things doing the housechores as its just normal sweeping / mopping or washing the toilet.

time being, i am my house singapore maid. haha