Rest in peace

My mother in law passed away on 11aug..

she was hit with brain stroke in late dec 2009. In hospital (icu + normal ward) for almost 2.5mths before transferring to nursing home. She never regain her memory. After her stroke, she become bedbound, vegetable and lost almost 95% of her memory. We visited her almost everyday in the hospital / nursing home.

When we were back from our honeymoon on 12jul night, bui on his mobile and got a call from NUH saying MIL got some infection and had to be admitted.

13Jul, we went to see her during lunch time and she was in isolated ward. Doc came to explained to us on her condition. She got a ear infection and needed treatment. We thot just normal treatment for a week but 2days later, doc told us that the ear infection was quite bad and needed her to be on 6weeks treatment of antibotics but then treatment to be done at community hospital instead of NUH itself.

We went to see social worker regarding this prob and was told community hospital charges are bout $2k a month and MIL place at nursing home will be taken out as she didnt return for more than 4weeks, nursing home will removed her and we need to re apply the home application.

Just before end of Jul, she was transfered to ST luke community hospital to get her treatment done. Her ear infection was beta but still antiobotics need to be given..

Me and bui are trying to sort out with social worker and pleading with them to allow home to take her again as nursing home is at cck central and is onli a few bus stop away from their home and its easier for FIL to visit her...

On 6aug evening, St luke called bui telling him tat MIL kidney isnt doing well and they will monitor if a need will rush her to NUH.

7aug noon, i did ask bui if hospital called and he say no. So we assume everything is back to normal for MIL. Who noes in the evening, they called and say quite bad need to rush MIL to hospital. we both are quite worried and hope all goes well for MIL.

08aug morni, had breakfast with bui after he off work and we headed to waterloo street guang yin temple to pray then to sengkang MA ZHU temple then headed to NUH to visit MIL.
Doc told us her condition is quite bad and is like anytime. Her kidney failed on her. Blood pressure is low and she not breathing on her own. Upon hearing wat the doc say, my tears flowed down non stop. BUi called his uncle and inform them bout MIL situation.

09aug morni, bui relatives was there. i didnt went as i was havign a flu and dun seem to be feeling well and rested at home which bui keep me updated on whichever situation.

10aug lunch time, we went to visit mil and she was tearing. her eye kept looking at bui.. I somehow sense something not rite but didnt reali go and think so much over it. At nite, her cousin called me at hospital saying the blood pressure and heart beat dun seem to be doing well and ask me how. to keep her claim, i told her she wil be alrite and if anything doc will sure called bui.

11aug morni, out for work earli and was sms with bui and we even say noon time wana go visit MIL but just when i was reaching office around 7+ hospital called me saying mIL was seriously ill and get us to rush down. I rang up bui immediately and just 10min after the 1st call, hospital called again and say she had gone to heaven. My heart almost pop out and i was tearing when in the cab. Immediately i called bui and break the news and he too breakdown. Upon reaching hospital, the staff had clean up MIL. she was lying down on hospital bed peacefully. I could see her peacefully expression, gone from all the pain she been thru the past 8mths. Both me and bui was crying so hard. Its just too hard for bui to accept it. BK came to meet us and help arraanged on the funeral stuff. Undertakers came to collect body at 9+ and we headed to coffin shop to arrange the rest of the stuff and etc.

5days wake and i didnt reali sleep much thru out as was there with bui and helping. Cox if he breakdown, FIL will breakdown too.

Jus minute before crem, bui cried so hard and the feeling reali make me feel losing a loved one is nv easy to accept. I can totally feel his pain... He is now left to take care of FIL and i am now his pillar which make me feel i got to be even stronger in order for BUi to stay strong..

*Rest in peace my dearest mother in law*

Honeymoon trip

5days 4night honeymooon trip to hongkong was fun.. eat eat eat... shop shop shop... snap snap snap... sooooo much fun and am looking forward to my next trip...

too much photos to be uploaded here... U may view it at my facebook account.

The day my status changed to "MRS"

07 Jul 2010 is the day when i had my status changed. Witness by family members, frens and few colleagues. As its a more to family affair, i didnt invite whole lot of frens.

The exchanged of vow is done at Registry of Marraige located at 7 maxwell road MND building. Why not fort canning? reason being its closed for reno till end of 2010.

After the 5min soleminsation, off we go for high tea at marriot hotel. End the session at 1700hr.

No longer a Miss and i noe someone wife.... (:

Photos can be view at my facebook.

3weeks stay in bird cage

Yoyo peeps... sorry for lack of updates as i been locked in bird cage and onli few days back then got release out... hahaha...

Lovelove is on 3weeks of reservist and therefore i didnt club for tat 3weeks... spending my weekend with him and family...

dating for so long and its the 1st time he spent fri and sat with me ok... cox due to his work, he is alwya working on fri and sat... isnt tat sad?? this mean in my life, onli once a year he will spend 3weeks of fri and sat wit me... and imagine 1 day i were to get married, cfm got to do it on any other day but not fri and sat... and this mean when i were to giv birth oso cant choose fri and sat.... isnt sucky to max? okok i think i think to much la... haha

1st sat spend with lovelove was super great... he woke up at 6am went to kopitiam buy me breakfast.. me didnt even notice cox slept till too soundly liao.. woke at 9am and he told me breakfast is on table.. i laugh loud thot its was a joke.. he ask me to go brush teeth and when i done, the breakfast in on table... hoho.. so sweet rite... after breakfast rest awhile and then go ath and we headed to marina square for lunch.. shop till 4+ and then we headed to MBS... nothing to see as majority of the shop are still gg thru renovation... left MBS after 30mins and bus down to orchard... Lovelove brought me to my fav gelare waffle cafe for dessert... Shop around for 1hr and headed home... No dinner cox we both are too full...

Sun morni woke up, bus down to chinatown for tim sum at yan palace.. after lunch, bus back hm and rest... evening time headed to changi barks cafe for advance father day celebration... after dinner, headed to loyang tua pek gong temple pray pray then home..

2nd week of sat - supposed to had burger king for breakfast but missed it.. ended up again, we headed tomarina square for lunch then to town... this time no gelare as i dun like eat... shop till 5+ then headed home to rest...

sun- morni woke up train to yew tee for bk breakfast then shop around... after tat went back home to rest before gg home for dinner... mummy cooked braised duck and yam rice... yummy yummy...

spending timing with lovelove is alway seem to be ending sooo fast... during this 3weeks, i feel like a princess being pampered and being love... (:

Shanghai Dolly Dinner

Its was a sunday late noon and we headed to shanghai dolly kitchen for dinner... Before the kitchen was ready, we headed to liang court to do some grocery shopping while me headed to pink palour to do my B.W...

Dinner started at about 7pm and dad came at around 720pm due to work ending late... Dinner treat was by lovelove as he is entitled to 50% discount reason being shanghai dolly is also part of st james group and lovelove is the manager... (: Its also dad and mum first time to the club and we actuali brought the kids to the dance floor. Yes the 3 kids (:

After dinner, we took a stroll around clarke quay and dad suggested we go for the singapore river cruise tour... Its cost the whole family 100+ for the 30min ride... Courtesy of Er jie... (: After dinner, bid them goodbye and i headed back to lovelove house...

Its alway a great sunday spending with my beloved family and lovelove... (:

Vesak Day Trip

Family trip to afarmosa during vesak day was fun and enjoyable... Esp with kids around, u tend to have lot and lot of laughter.

Left home at 10+am, reach tuas check point at 1130am and the jam started and its a slowed moving jam and finally reaching JOhor custom at 1430hrs... Stop for petrol and toilet then off we go... Reaching afarmosa at 1600hrs... Check in and then off we go for dinner at the chinese restaurant. Food was ok ok but the pricing is like DAY LIGHT ROBBERY. After dinner, headed to the carnival for lot of fun.. The kids had the car ride / aeroplane ride and etc while me and 2nd bro in law went to played the dunoe wat goat ride.. Haha its a round and round ride seeing how long u can tahan before falling.. After all the games, we saw tis bumper car ride... sooo we decided to buy more tokens for the ride... Mummy didnt play sooo she the camerawoman... Fun fun fun.. Returned back to the resort at around 9+.. Every1 bath and the kids get ready for bed... Tired me when to bed too...

Day 2: woke up at 8+, had breakfast then headed to the animal safari... Weather is like pretty hot and its killing... We walked around, taking pix, went for animal show and tram ride to the safari.. followed by feeding monkey at the monkey island.. they feed and i stand in the shelter cox i scare kena attack.. haha... after tat the kids wana feed the animals.. we had kfc for lunch... take away and went back resort to eat... bath and had noon nap till 5+... woke up and we drove out for dinner... after dinner, headed back to resort and rest... chit chat till 10+ and its sweet dream time..

Day 3: woke up super earli.. bout 0645.. sms lovelove... telling him i be back soon.. check out the resort at 8+ and headed to yong peng for UNCLE LIM BAK KU TEH... after tat, dad drove us to buy some products before heading home... Reach sg at around 12+.. unpack the luggage and headed for noon nap at 2+ till 4+... Shiok ar... (:

5+ went to Singapore Recreation CLub for a swim followed by dinner... Had a wonderful trip and looking forward for more..

You may view my trip pix on my FB acct.

6mths

Happy 6mths anniversary to us... Time flee soo fast.. Jus a blink and we are oredi together for 6mths...

In tis 6mths, lovelove had been giving me the best of the best he can.. Showering me with all the love/care/ concern which simply melted me... Surprise me here and there which he nv once did it before.... *touched*

We are now simply looking forward to July 2010.
Hmmm for me to noe for you to find out (: